Lessons in leadership

I love reading about your life at school. I've lived in several places other than Utah, and while I sometimes thought I might be there forever, I would start thinking about the weather here or the mountains or just home in general. It does help to gain another perspective, though, and no matter where you live, that's always a good idea.

I've been thinking a lot about leadership this week, probably because of Obama's Nobel Peace Prize, but also because of very personal issues like church, the League of Women Voters and friendship. Life, I guess, is a lot about trying to get people to understand your point of view, and then trying to understand someone else's. We're all trying to lead a little when we talk to one another - lead someone into your mind and close to your point of view.

Unfortunately, I think many Americans now lead from fear. Either they try to kindle fear in others to persuade them, or they act out of fear and so create a following of fearful, hateful people.

I think Americans voted for Obama because he offered hope, not fear, in a very fearful time. He now has opportunities no other president in recent times has had. Health care is one. I do wish he'd speak out on this very important issue. John F. and I were talking, and we think Obama very much wants to "include" all the players. But in doing that, he has left out the first and most important step: a discussion of the principles.

The players need to agree on the broad principles of health care first before they start tinkering with the system. Obama seems to be afraid to speak the phrase "public option" although that, indeed, is what's on most people's minds. One way or the other.

Leadership is not easy, but then, it's not brain surgery either. Principles, goals, trust. These are all essentials of leadership.

Living in Missouri or Washington, D.C., you will learn of things that are important to others; you will see how some people create small cabals of nasty people and how others shine a gentle light on you.

I am so proud of you and your leadership, Ray. Missouri is just one stop along the way.